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Motivation in the Workplace: Maslow, Alderfer, and Herzberg

Sunday, August 24th, 2008

During these trying times, it is really a challenge for managers to keep employee motivation at its peak… The same holds true for our organization…   Studies have attested that employees who are highly motivated give their optimal performance in their jobs.  In consideration of their findings, managers should always be in the know as far as motivation theories are concerned… Below is a short refresher article discussing Maslow, Alderfer and Herzberg’s motivation theories…

What is motivation?

· According to Buchanan, motivation is a decision making process. The individual chooses the desired outcomes and sets in motion the behavior that is appropriate to achieve the desired outcomes.

Work Motivation

· The psychological forces that determine the direction of a person’s behavior in an organization, a person’s level of effort, and a person’s level of persistence.

Why is Motivation important in businesses?

An organization’s employees are its greatest assets. No matter how efficient your technology and equipment may be, it is no match for the effectiveness and efficiency of your staff.

Organizations with highly motivated employees enjoy the following advantages:

· Results to higher productivity

· Promotes better quality of work with less wastage

· Develops a greater sense of urgency

· Encourages more employee feedback and suggestion (motivated workers take more ownership of their work)

· Demands greater feedback from supervisors and management

THEORIES OF MOTIVATION

These theories specify the needs that people have and the way these needs contribute to motivation and job performance. These needs may be psychological and physiological in nature.

Needs Hierarchy Theory of Motivation

- Abraham Maslow

Background

· Abraham Maslow was dubbed as the Father of Humanist Psychology

· He based his theory on the idea that individuals work to satisfy human needs, such as food and complex psychological needs such as self-esteem. He coined the term Hierarchy of Needs to account for the roots of human motivation.

· According to Maslow, a fulfilled need did little to motivate an employee. For example, a person who has sufficient food to eat cannot be enticed to do something for a reward of food. In contrast, a person with an unfulfilled need can be persuaded to work to satisfy that need. Thus, a hungry person might work hard for food. Maslow called this the Deficit Principle.

Deficit Principle

· It is a person’s unsatisfied needs that influence his behavior

· The unsatisfied need becomes a focal motivator.

· The satisfied need no longer influences an individual’s behavior.

· Managers should be alert for unmet needs and then create rewards to satisfy them.

Progression Principle

· Higher order needs are not active motivators until lower order needs are fulfilled.

· Unfulfilled lower order needs take precedence over higher level needs. For example, for a person who is hungry, his need for food will far outweigh his need for self respect.

* Physiological Needs – needs required to sustain life such as: air, water, food, and sleep. According to this theory, if these needs are not satisfied, then an individual will surely be motivated to satisfy them. Higher order needs will not be recognized not unless one satisfies the needs that are basic to existence.
* Safety and Security – Once physiological needs are met, one’s attention turns to safety and security in order to be free from the threat of physical and emotional harm. Such needs maybe fulfilled by: living in a safe area, medical insurance, job security, and financial reserves.
* Social Needs – Once lower level needs are met, higher level motivators awaken. The first of which are social needs. Social needs are those related to interaction with others and may include: friendship, belonging to a group, and giving and receiving love.
* Esteem Needs – After a person feels that he or she belongs, the urge to attain a degree of importance emerges. Esteem needs can be categorized as external motivators and internal motivators. Internally motivating esteem needs are those such as self-esteem, accomplishment, and self-respect. External esteem needs are those such as reputation, social status, and recognition.
* In later models, Maslow added another layer in between esteem and self-actualization needs: Need for Aesthetics and Knowledge
* Self-Actualization – is the summit of Maslow’s motivation theory. It is about the quest for reaching one’s full potential as a person. Self-actualized people tend to have motivators such as: truth, justice, wisdom, and meaning. They are said to have frequent occurrences of peak experiences, which are energized moments of profound happiness and harmony. According to Maslow, only a small percentage of the population reaches the level of self-actualization.

Applying Maslow’s Needs Hierarchy – Business Management Implications

If Maslow’s theory holds, there are some important implications for management. Managers have varied opportunities to motivate employees through management style, job designs, company events, and compensation packages. To pattern after Maslow’s theory, management can do the following:

· Physiological Motivation: Provide ample breaks for lunch and recuperation. Devise a salary scheme that would allow your workers to buy life’s essentials.

· Safety Needs: Employees cannot reach maximum effectiveness or efficiency when they feel the need to constantly check their backs and scan their surroundings for fear of potential threats.  Physical threats in the work environment can be alleviated by security guards, cameras, and responsive management personnel. Managers should also provide relative job security, retirement benefits, and the like.

· Social Needs: Generate a feeling of acceptance, belonging, and community by reinforcing team dynamics, planning team-based projects and social events.

· Esteem Motivators: Recognize achievements, assign important projects, and provide status to make employees feel valued and appreciated.

· Self-Actualization: Offer challenging and meaningful work assignments which enable innovation, creativity, and progress according to long-term goals. Provide opportunities that would allow your employees to reach their full career potential.

*Remember, everyone is not motivated by the same needs.  At various points in their lives and careers, various employees will be motivated by completely different needs. It is imperative that you recognize each employee’s needs that are currently being pursued.

Maslow’s Theory – Limitations and Criticism

Though Maslow’s hierarchy makes sense intuitively, little evidence supports its strict hierarchy. Actually, recent research challenges the order imposed by Maslow’s pyramid. As an example, in some cultures, social needs are regarded higher than any others. Further, Maslow’s hierarchy fails to explain the “starving artist” scenario, in which the need for aesthetic supersedes physical needs. Additionally, little evidence suggests that people satisfy exclusively one motivating need at a time.

While scientific support fails to reinforce Maslow’s hierarchy, his theory is very popular, being the introductory motivation theory for many students and managers, worldwide.

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ERG Theory of Motivation

- Clayton Alderfer

In 1969, Clayton Alderfer’s revision of Abraham Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, called the ERG Theory appeared in The Psychological Review in an article titled “An Empirical Test of a New Theory of Human Need.” Alderfer’s contribution to organizational behavior was dubbed the ERG theory, and was created to align Maslow’s motivation theory more closely with empirical research.

Alderfer distinguishes three categories of human needs that influence worker’s behavior. These are existence, relatedness and growth.

· Existence Needs: physiological and safety needs such as hunger, thirst and sex.

· Relatedness Needs: social and external esteem involvement with family, friends, co-workers and employers.

· Growth Needs: internal esteem and self actualization the desire to be creative, productive and to complete meaningful tasks.

The ERG theory does not believe in levels of needs. A lower level need does not have to be gratified. This theory accounts for a variety of individual differences, which would cause a worker to satisfy their need at hand, whether or not a previous need has been satisfied. Hence, needs in the different ERG areas can be felt simultaneously.

ERG Theory recognizes that the importance of the three categories may vary for each individual. Managers must recognize that an employee has multiple needs that must be satisfied simultaneously. According to the ERG theory, if you focus exclusively on one need at a time, this will not effectively motivate.

The frustration-regression principle

In addition, the ERG theory acknowledges that if a higher level need remains unfulfilled, the person may regress towards lower level needs, which appear easier to satisfy. This is known as: the frustration-regression principle.

The two major motivational premises that the ERG theory gives are: the more lower-level needs are gratified, the more higher-level need satisfaction is desired; the less higher-level needs are gratified, the more lower-level need satisfaction is desired.

Applying Alderfer’s ERG Theory – Business Management Implications

According to Alderfer, the frustration-regression principle has an impact on workplace motivation. For example, if growth opportunities are not offered to the employees, they may regress towards relatedness needs, and socialize more with co-workers. If management can recognize these conditions early, steps can be taken to satisfy the frustrated needs until the employees are able to pursue growth again.

TWO-FACTOR THEORY

- Frederick Herzberg

· Frederick Herzberg’s theory of motivation is a content theory of motivation.  His theory attempts to explain the factors that motivate individuals by identifying and satisfying their individual needs, desires and the aims pursued to satisfy those desires.

· This motivation theory is referred to as a two factor theory because of the belief that motivators can be categorized as either hygiene factors or motivating factors.

· Hygiene factors are also often referred to as ‘dissatisfiers’. They are concerned with factors associated with the job itself but are not directly a part of it. Typically, this is salary, although other factors which will often act as dissatisfiers include:

1. perceived differences with others
2. job security
3. working conditions
4. the quality of management
5. organizational policy
6. administration
7. interpersonal relations.

· Motivators (sometimes called ‘satisfiers’) are those factors directly concerned with the satisfaction gained from a job, such as:

1. the sense of achievement and the intrinsic value obtained from the job itself
2. the level of recognition by both colleagues and management
3. the level of responsibility
4. opportunities for advancement and
5. the status provided.

Applying Herzberg’s Two Factor Theory – Business Management Implications

The most important part of this theory of motivation is that the main motivating factors are not in the environment but in the intrinsic value and satisfaction gained from the job itself. It follows therefore that to motivate an individual, a job itself must be challenging, have scope for enrichment and be of interest to the jobholder. From this concept, Herzberg shaped his ideas about Job Enrichment, Job Enlargement, and Job Rotation.

As early as 1950 in the USA job rotation and job enlargement were being both advocated and tested as means for overcoming boredom at work.

For example, IBM introduced changes to machine operators’ jobs to include machine setting and inspection. In addition they introduced other wide-ranging changes in both the production system and the role of foremen and supervisors.

It is less than clear just how successful changes of this type have been in practice. Often, workers expect higher payment to compensate for learning these other jobs and for agreeing to changes in working practices. The new jobs are often only a marginal improvement in terms of the degree of repetition, the skill demands and the level of responsibility; as a result workers have not always responded positively to such change. Job enlargement schemes may not be entirely feasible in some circumstances.

The concepts of both job rotation and enlargement do not have their basis in any psychological theory. However, the next generation of attempts to redesign jobs developed from the researches of Herzberg.

From his theory Herzberg, itemized a set of principles for the enrichment of jobs:

* removing some controls while retaining accountability;
* increasing personal accountability for work;
* assigning each worker a complete unit of work with a clear start and end point;
* granting additional authority and freedom to workers;
* making periodic reports directly available to workers rather than to supervisors only;
* the introduction of new and more difficult tasks into the job;
* encouraging the development of expertise by assigning individuals to specialized tasks.

Herzberg’s other major contribution to the development of ideas in the area of job design was his checklist for implementation. This is a prescription for those seeking success in the enrichment of jobs:

* select those jobs where technical changes are possible without major expense;
* job satisfaction is low;
* performance improvement is likely with increases in motivation;
* hygiene is expensive;
* examine the jobs selected with the conviction that changes can be introduced;
* ‘green light’ or ‘brainstorm’ a list of possible changes;
* screen the list (red lighting) for hygiene suggestions and retain only ideas classed as motivators;
* remove the generalities from the list retaining only specific motivators;
* avoid employee involvement in the design process;
* set up a controlled experiment to measure the effects of the changes;
* anticipate an early decline in performance as workers get used to their new jobs.

Job enrichment, then, aims to create greater opportunities for individual achievement and recognition by expanding the task to increase not only variety but also responsibility and accountability. This can also include greater worker autonomy, increased task identity and greater direct contact with workers performing servicing tasks.

Herzberg’s Theory – Limitations and Criticism

The focus of the approach is the individual job and only limited consideration is given to the wider context in which the job is carried out, particularly social groupings.

Preschool Pre-Reading Primers

Sunday, August 10th, 2008

According to Chastain (1988), the purpose of pre-reading activities is to motivate the students to want to read the assignment and to prepare them to be able to read it. With this in mind, we can see that the concept of reading is elevated beyond being a skill to be mastered. Instead, our end goal is for children to appreciate and consequently love and embrace the habit of Reading .

Chastain added that a long time ago, the major emphasis has been on the product rather than the process of reading itself. Because of this thinking, pre-reading preparation has consisted little more than the following:

“Tomorrow’s reading is really interesting! Read the whole text, pages 32 to 38, and write in complete sentences the answer to the questions on page 39.”

Being a preschool teacher, I cannot just right away demand the students to read this book and share their insights the following day. In my school, we believe that it is never too early to read. Because we are trying to develop early readers, it is but proper that we prepare them thoroughly with the process of reading… and this preparation includes building motivation- which can be embedded in pre-reading activities that are imperative before immersing the students with the reading task.

Conceptualizing pre-reading activities in preschool can be exciting, and definitely intellectually stimulating. Thus, before I come up with activities, I have these assumptions in mind:

  1. Children are more receptive to activities that are within the context of play.
  2. Children are multi-sensorial.
  3. Some children have limited English vocabulary.
  4. Some children are high performers, some are low performers.
  5. Children have to be presented with ideas that they can somehow connect to their existing schemas- hence, they have to be able to relate these ideas to their lives.

Below are some pre-reading activities/games that I have presented to my students, and have somehow produced favorable results.

  1. Picture Peeker- This activity builds excitement as children slowly, but excitingly unravel the mystery picture. What I do is I prepare a big illustration of an important figure, object, person, or animal from the story I will be presenting. I will cover this big picture with strips of paper that can contain words or drawings of some objects ,etc. that they will also be encountering from the story. Then, I will ask questions and children are to answer by choosing among the smaller pictures (the ones covering the big picture). Once they find the answer, they will remove the picture of that answer. So with this, anticipation builds as we slowly discover the mystery picture. Once it is revealed, we usually do word webbing to expound vocabulary.
  2. Giggle with Riddle- This activity never fails to capture children’s attention. With this activity, I prepare pictures from the story then at the back, I write down the riddle that they will be guessing. Once all riddles are solved, we talk about the pictures again to expound vocabulary.
  3. The Classic Guessing Game- Sometimes, when I run out of time preparing pictures or instructional materials, I just pick out some real objects, stash them somewhere to hide them, then I present easy and fast questions so they can guess what the items I’m hiding. This is an easy-to-prepare yet effective pre-reading activity.
  4. Preschool Henyo- This activity was inspired by Eat Bulaga’s henyo game. What I do is I call one student who would guess a particular word. This student will sit in front of his/her classmates, then I will stick a picture (from the story I will be presenting) on his/her forehead. I will tell the student to ask questions about the mystery picture on his forehead and his/her classmates can answer only with a yes, no, or can be. As exciting as this activity may seem, you cannot help it if some classmates would suddenly blurt out the answer. That’s why you really need to make the instructions clear prior to the game. Also, it can be time consuming that’s why I limit the number of pictures to those that are really significant in the story. What I like about this game is that it also builds the children’s questioning skills.
  5. Brainstorming- This is again an easy-to-prepare game. To do this, I gather some pictures or real objects that will appear in the story I will be presenting. I get one item at a time and pass it around. Once the object lands on them, they are to describe or say something about it. Then I write down their inputs. After all items are described, we read and expound their ideas. What I like about this is that the level of participation is high, as all kids are kind of required to say something about the object on hand.
  6. Bulging Backpack/Feely Box- This is just one way to make the presentation more enticing before we do vocab building. Objects or things from the story to be presented will be stashed inside a back pack or feely box. One by one, the students will be putting their hands inside and ‘feel’ an object. They will describe the object and then guess it. Once all items are out, we then do vocab building.
  7. Tongue Twisters- What I do is I come up with a tongue twister sentence that is about the story that I will be presenting… for example, A golden haired girl gobbled a gooey gum.. for the story Goldilocks. I let them repeat this sentence one by one. We usually end up laughing after this activity.
  8. Flip the pic-  This is a variant of picture peeker- instead of ripping off pictures, we just flip them around to reveal the mystery picture at the back. What I do is I prepare a big illustration of a picture from the story, say a goat from the story Billy Goats Gruff.  I cut this picture into squares.  Then at the back of the squares, I put in smaller drawings or illustrations of some items that they will also see in the story, for example, grass, bridge, etc… We do guessing game and to answer, children will pick the picture and flip it. Like picture peeker, we get to see bits and pieces of the mystery picture… something that would really make the children giddy with excitement..
  9. Rhyming Game-  Once students understand the concept of rhyming, I can already come up with rhyme time game that can be formulated into a pre-reading activity… It is kind of like a guessing game also.  For example, before presenting the story ‘Gum on the Drum’, I let them guess the mystery word in this rhyme… O what plenty of hair, at the back of the ______(bear)… then we discuss something about the bear, what it can do, what it looks like, etc…
  10. The classic I spy- The teacher puts some objects around the classroom that children are to find, or sometimes, the teacher can also alter some features. When we play I spy, I really take time and effort in preparing the classroom environment.  With this, by the time the kids enter the classroom, they get excited right away, and start asking questions about these changes.  For example, before presenting the story ‘Wacky Wednesday’ we really ‘mess up’ the classroom, turn books upside down, stick some shoes on the ceiling, put in some wacky drawings…etc.

So there you have it, some games and pre-reading activities that I do before story telling… And to add to that, these activities in themselves are not as effective without the proper execution of the teacher… The teacher herself should get the feel of the moment so she can share the excitement with the students….

Public Fiscal Administration

Sunday, August 10th, 2008

Public Fiscal Administration… the MMEM (Master in Management major in Educational Management) course that broke my heart… not because I failed it (in fact I had the highest grade in my class), not because it was complicated (which was by the way, true)… but because the course opened my eyes to many of life’s brutal facts…

For those who would be taking the course, and also for those who would want to get a glimpse of the Fiscal situation in the Philippines, I’m sharing with you some powerpoint presentations that me and T. Joyce made…  Contents are mostly about public debt management, the concept of development, taxation, budget process, etc… I hope you find them useful

fiscal-reportjoyce

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About Scribbles and Doodles

Friday, August 8th, 2008

I decided to put Scribbles and Doodles for the title of my blog site… Scribbles and Doodles is the title of my column in our school paper- Happy Faces.  I hope they don’t mind me using it… In my column, I usually write about all sorts of preschool things. For my blog, I want to have a wider coverage and go beyond my teaching profession.

What is the origin of scribbles and doodles? As we know, Language Development has four strands: Listening, Speaking, Reading, and Writing.  In contrast to what other people may think, writing skills develop even before children learn to write letters and words.  In fact, early writing skills become evident by the time your child holds a pencil or a crayon and pretends to write.  When babies start to scribble and doodle on our newly-painted walls, important work documents, newspapers, floors, etc., that is already a sign of emerging writing skills.  I know that as parents, our first reaction, if such incident would happen, is to scold our child for being naughty and for messing up our house.  But you know what, beyond that, we should realize that our child is on the onset of a discovery… he or she is learning to write! So before we scream our lungs out, let us think out of the box and consider that it is all a process of learning.  Maybe then, we’d be less angry… :-)

My Emerging Theory/Philosophy of Teaching and Learning

Tuesday, August 5th, 2008

In my Practicum in Teaching class, we were asked to complete this questionnaire to see what Teaching Model are you mostly inclined to apply in the classroom… Teachers, please feel free to assess yourselves and find out if you are more of a behaviorist, cognitivist, or humanist…

Questionnaire: www.employees.csbsju.edu/esass/learningratingscale.htm

The results of my survey….
B= 43
C= 46
H= 44

The results actually show very little difference among the three teaching models. In my opinion, each teaching model has its own set of advantages that is worth applying. Among the three, I scored highest in Cognitivism. Cognitivists emphasize on an individual’s internal learning process and how it is affected as interactions with the environment occur. I believe that each learner has this innate capacity to learn.  Being a teacher, I belong to the learner’s environment. With much help and proper intervention, I can do so much in helping the child enrich his or her everyday learning experiences in school.

Where would you like to teach- public or private school?
Right now, I am very comfortable teaching in a private school setting. Somehow, the system is more structured, there are many opportunities for growth and advancement, and the training is rigid. Honestly, my opinion is largely affected by the situation of our public school system in the Philippines. Tales of frustration and despair of public school teachers continue to haunt us everyday. Maybe I choose to stay in my comfort zone… or maybe, I myself feel that I am not emotionally and psychologically equip to face the brutal facts of poverty and oppression. I am convinced that Abraham Maslow’s theory holds true- it would be difficult to enrich the child’s mind with learning experiences if the stomach is yearning for food and nourishment. More so, given limited teaching resources, extra large class sizes, and political and governmental conflicts, who would be enticed to teach, if not maybe for the pure reason of nobility and genuine kindness? Actually, from my above viewpoint, I sincerely admire the courage of our public school teachers.  Indeed, despite the circumstances, we still have in our midst, a number of brave souls who continue to dream and believe that they can make a difference.
Given the opportunity, I would like to try teaching in a public school.  But until I am ready, I think I am to stay where I am right now.  Maybe one day, I will be given the chance to do my own share of public service.

What subject would you like to teach?
I love reading good books `and in the same manner, I love teaching young children the basic rudiments of reading.  Though not all kinder children finish the school year with established reading skills, the fact that they become avid visitors of the library is enough for me.  It is for this matter that I feel a certain inclination for Reading and probably English subjects. I feel that I will be most effective teaching them.
Also for this school year, I might be given some teaching loads in high school.  In high school, I might teach Basic Statistics.  Given the opportunity to teach in the higher levels, I opt to concentrate on subjects that I have had much exposure to- such as Psychology, Human Behavior in Organizations, Psychology, etc.

What grade/year level would you like to teach?
For the longest time, I have been a teacher to children as young as 4 years old.  They say teaching little kids helps you keep that child like spirit in you. With this experience, I can say that the last 7 years of my teaching career have been indeed incredible. But something happened that made me think of opening my options to other career opportunities. I was once told that preschool teachers will not be able to effectively teach high school or college students. I feel disappointed when some people say that teaching preschool is as easy as 1 2 3.  In my opinion, teaching in preschool, gradeschool, highschool, and college can be entirely different from each other.  However, this difference is not because one is easier to handle than the other.  Each designation has its own difficulties and challenges to face. To make the long story short, I have challenged myself and these people that we, too, can be equipped to teach higher levels. So, right now, I am psyching myself up for a possible teaching opportunity in High school.  However, honestly, in terms of preference, preschool will always be my first and true love! It has always been a pleasure thinking of activities that would be engaging and interesting for kids. As we know, preschoolers have limited attention span.  That is why presenting lessons in the context of playing is exciting and very much intellectually stimulating.

Which would you like to teach- heterogenous/homogenous?
In Brightwoods, we consider homogeneity in terms of cognitive ability as an important factor when we do class sectioning. Somehow, grouping children by ability makes teaching easier for the teacher- he or she would know what strategies would be most effective when delivering the lesson, he or she would know how much degree of intervention or follow-up discussion is needed, he or she would know what to expect from the students.  In the case of students, low performers will not be demotivated when grouped with other children of the same capacity.  Similarly, high performers will be challenged when in the presence of other bright students.  But of course, there are disadvantages to this kind of set up.  Some parents may complain if their children are not included in the ‘star section’ and in the same manner, may perceive their child to be a slow learner if grouped in the ‘poor section’.  This dilemma may be resolved upon communicating to the parents the real reason behind this action. However, not all may understand. For me, I do not mind teaching a homogenous or a heterogenous group of students. I enjoy the ease of teaching ‘star students’ and in the same manner, I am open to the challenge of educating diverse learners. The teacher of a heterogenous group should be prepared to meet the individual needs of each learner.  One strategy might not work well for everybody.  Hence, the teacher should have intervention plans ready.  Time should be allotted for ability grouping, where individualized needs could be better addressed.

Are the reasons for your choices connected to any particular belief you hold about teaching-learning process? About students? About yourself? If yes, what is such belief?
I believe that my choices are affected by my inclination to see the teaching-learning process more from a constructivist’s perspective.  Constructivists claim that learning is at its peak when students actively participate in problem-solving and critical thinking through activities that they find relevant in their lives. In preschool, this is very much evident in the way we construct our daily lesson plans.  During discussions, you would see how creative children’s responses can be. They are fond of creating their own interpretations based from their experiences.  In school, they learn to accommodate and assimilate new learning to their existing ‘schemas’.  During this process, the teacher’s role becomes significant.  The teacher should carefully facilitate the learning experiences so it becomes more of a self-discovery and not spoonfeeding.  More so, the teacher also plays a significant role in ensuring that children attain their optimal learning performance. If the educator knows each and every child’s strengths and weaknesses, then he or she can devise tactics to increase the possibility of success for each learner.

On Parenting: Amber’s Funny Walk

Monday, August 4th, 2008

Let’s change channel..

It is really a challenge to juggle work and motherhood… to add to that, being a wife, a sister, a daughter… For this blog, let me talk about my second child- Amber.  From the onset, you’d see the difference between Amber and her big sister, my eldest- Pauline.  Amber moves around a lot. In Filipino, we refer to this as ‘malikot’.  She is really super hyper that some people would say that she seems to act like a boy.  Right about now, she has mastered the art of walking, even though, she still does this in a funny way.  When we first noticed how odd the way she walks, I immediately searched the net to find out why… or if it is normal.  When she walks, it seems like their is this huge rock between her legs.  Now, when I say legs, I mean really fat legs.  The size of her legs seems to aggravate the situation… seemingly making the distance between her two legs farther apart than they actually are. Now here is what www.parents.com say about walking skills:
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